Lady Sun's BDSM Game / Tool, 2001
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one thing I found the hardest during training a 24/7 submissive
was to keep track of / remember both compliances,
infractions and rewards /punishments, especially when out
and about.
This tool was created in response to that issue and enhances
training sessions with a submissive. Please refer to the
Training your Submissive
in .pdf
format! However, some might want to use it as a game
instead of a training tool. I will be pleased
if this can help people enjoy their life in how they see
fit!
This tool helps assist in that there is a place for a notebook
and pencil which chits of paper with written rewards and
punishments. The submissive can *choose* their reward or
punishment* which can then be kept inside the box for when
the dom and/or sub is available to carry them out!
The discreet box I choose was a plastic 3.5 floppy disk
holder which I bought for $1 at a surplus store. It could
be easily put into a jacket pocket, purse or knapsack. I
then created a "bat" in red leather and placed
it on the top which means, "good luck and fortune".
With the yellow plastic, being associated with my scene
name: Lady Sun! ☼
Each
chit of paper with a reward or punishment has an accompanying
label to indicate the *level* of punishment or reward. I
believe in "let the punishment / reward fit the crime
/ good deed!".
Within the box, I labeled (you can use avery type white/coloured
sticker labels & markers) the top row "R"
for Rewards and on the second row "P" for Punishments.
Vertically, each column was labeled: Level 1, 2, 3, 4.
For example the Level 1 (yellow and orange) was related
to the first column. Level 4 (red and black) was related
to the last column.
The Rewards and Punishments will be something personal
to each and every one one of you. Knowing what's a reward
and what's a punishment for your submissive is essential
to creating an effective and/or fun tool!
I tried to make more Level 1's and 2's and reserved Levels
3 and 4 for serious compliances or infractions.
Please note: The inside text of the chits
of paper with the label on it is better *not* to be visible
unless you find it useful to have it visible. It's just
visible so you can get an idea of how it looks.
Once each Reward (R) and Punishment (P) is discussed with
your submissive, one can then type and print it up, then
cut out the R's & P's and apply the corresponding Level
label to the chits of paper.
When the submissive has complied or offended, one can take
out the box (even in public if it's not so obvious), write
down the compliance or infraction and let the submissive
select their Reward or Doom aka Punishment. You can then
take the chit of paper and fold it into the notepad or place
it in a baggy and leave it inside the box for later application.
There you have it! A simple tool which can be of great
use and enjoyment to you and yours!
If you have any questions, concerns or comments about this
BDSM training / game tool - please email me! info@ladysun.info